Not all of the extended commands worked in the gnome interface because
'#' just caused the next character to be treated as a meta character (this
was a hack I added a while back when none of the extended commands worked).
Resolved by finally adding an extended command menu to the gnome interface.
- updated some formatting so I could read the code
- fixed startup player selection menus so accelerators work
- added necessary calls to make sure selected menu item is visible
- also removed some dead code
- let the "#" key work as per Guidebook
- role selection didn't work if you had gender specified in your .nethackrc
similar problems would occur for other .nethackrc selections
- fix an obvious memory leak
- fix one crash bug from accessing a freed pointer (M-? dismiss M-?)
- note some invalid behavior in comments for a real Gnome developer to fix
- reformatted some code so I could follow it
